Divorce if need be.
That said, in my relationship with my wife if it EVER got to the point where she'd just outright ask me to sleep around tht would signal some MAJOR breakdowns in communication. There would have been a LARGE number of points where communication would have broken down. More likely we'd already be in counselling.
In your case, if I read between the lines, there are tensions and bad feelings already. Niether one of you is feeling fullfilled in this marriage.
I ask you, will letting him sleep around change that? If not, then you're not treating the cause of the issues. You need to go after the cause of the issues, or decide that this marriage is no longer workable for you.
Before you do that, however, think about why you married your husband in the first place. Are those feelings still there? Are those reasons still valid. Also think about what you've tried to do to help the marriage. I do advocate counselling before a marriage ends, no matter what. Frankly, counselling should happen after the marriage ends as well.
I wish you wisdom in your decisions, and offer support. You've got a tough road ahead of you. |
