First, and MOST IMPORTANTLY, *BOTH* parties absolutely MUST be able to separate love and sex.
Secondly, boundaries and rules must be set...and for this to work, there needs to be LOTS of communication. If there is an existing communication problem in the relationship, it's not going to work.
I could talk for hours about it, but what really matters is how YOU feel about it. Is he just asking for permission to screw anything that moves; and more importantly, is he going to have issues with YOU having sex with other men? |