But I would've said to your dad: "Do it yourself, here you have the scrubber and the soap, good luck."
If he wants clean dishes, he can clean them himself.
At some point it becomes ridiculous that you do everything that he wants.
From the posts about your living conditions that I've read, it seems that you are living with 2 extremely lazy men. And at one point, I'd have given up, and just decide to do my own laundry "if they want clean shirts, they do their own washing." etc.
You should not have to take the full household on your own, next to your dayjob. Disabilities and depression aside, life does go on.
But that might be my 'easy view from the sideline'. |