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Attn: Garrinka | by shargo | 2008-08-26 01:20:27 |
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by morenna |
2008-08-26 05:02:20 |
my unsolicited observation from yesterday, most of which you already know at some level, I'm sure:
in your current situation, you're teaching your son that women/good people are doormats who should put up with a wide range of heinous behaviours inflicted upon them, then blame themselves for what happened. He's learning that everybody else comes first and that he should have to struggle mightily but never get ahead, instead of standing up for himself and for what's right. This is not a good, healthy role model, IMO. I learned the same lesson growing up and it can cripple lots of aspects of your life, not just relationships.
Until/unless you stand up and demand a change, the status quo will continue as it has been. You've given your ex something like a couple hundred opportunities to do the right thing and he's not bothered. Instead he walks all over you and you let him make you feel like crap when you ask for what is YOURS. I know it's hard and I know it's scary, but wailing and gnashing your teeth isn't working. If you really want things to be different, you're going to have to change tactics and actually use the system to force him to fulfill his duties. He's clearly not listening to you at all. Time to have someone official do the "asking". And if he gets pissed off, it's not your fault. He has had numerous opportunities to do it right and he's chosen not to. That makes his discomfort *his* fault.
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