changing your number to something unlisted, and maybe taking a vacation - just going someplace else for a few days. Change of scene and leaving visual reminders behind, and going someplace where people pamper you (if you're into that sort of thing), or just for your own enjoyment - something to snap you out of your current thought patterns.
If you have a restraining order in place and she's violating it, nothing says "I'm done with you" than having the police throw them in jail.
And if that doesn't work, consider destroying photographs of the ex in question, or burning in effigy, or writing a very nasty letter/poem/song. And then burning that. |
