a religion is not something you can change like your underwear. Once you decide on something it isn't merely mouth-service (or at least it shouldn't be).
A religion should be something you truly believe.
Not something you decide to take up because it's cool, or because your boyfriend is of that religion.
You are showing a remarkable lack of self-esteem by deciding that whatever your BF likes must be better than what YOU like.
If you live your life to 'keep' him, you won't be living your life - you'll be living the one HE wants you to have.
And most guys don't like that anyway, so you stand to lose him by being such a malleable ball of clay. Have a spine, be yourself, live YOUR life, not his.
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