| I don't mean to sound like an ass when I say this, but I may very well. I read the eamil you sent, the "this" link, and came up with this theory (be it right or wrong). It sounds like you place the one you love, or the idea of them high above yourself, and this is often a bad thing. you should be your own individual, otherwise they have to love someone who is simply groveling at them. It's hard for a person to really interact with a person if all they are doing is fawning over them. It's also a bit creepy to place any person that high. It's something for romance novels, not live. A person needs the strength to be their own person, and then the person you date compliments that. They don't replace that or require that, I think. Like I said, I probably sound like an ass, but that's the best advice I can give on this. No one is worth dying for, and anyone who loved another would never want them to die for them. Well, that's my theory, I hope it helps a little. Good luck. |
