though; lots of people can't even get that far. I'd recommend that you just have fun with it, and don't try to force anything to happen. You probably don't want to go long-term with someone who's not compatible anyway. If she says you're "too sweet", there's some incompatibility there. Trying to figure out what that is, and trying to change yourself so you're more compatible, is the wrong way to go (IMO, of course).
It sounds trite, but just be yourself. If there's somewhere you want to go, something you want to do, offer it as a suggestion rather than just saying "I don't know; what do you want to do?" You probably want to be accommodating to stay on her good side, which I can understand, but don't walk on eggshells for fear of turning her off.
I tried changing myself to be more compatible with my ex-wife. It worked for a while, but . . . well, she's my ex-wife now.
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