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Holy deitus interruptus! | by hactar the uhhh | 2007-07-09 16:44:47 |
| I wish I'd heard their 10 minute conversation. |
by bastetsmuse |
2007-07-09 16:52:32 |
I well remember when my ex-husband returned from a ScamWhey (misspelled on purpose) weekend and announced, "I found Jesus this weekend." My response, "was He lost?" really indicated that there were going to be problems. And there were.
Major philosophical issues, major religious issues -- these things break couples up every day. It is **impossible** for one half of a relationship to have an "epiphany" of this magnitude and REASONABLY expect the other half to just grin and take it as ... gospel (sorry, just had to!).
Your friend was perhaps brutal in his honesty, but he knows what he wants. So does she. There IS no compromise in this situation, and your friend is ONLY "shallow and single-minded" because he isn't agreeing with her new agenda. I admire him for his directness, and wish him the best -- and I sincerely hope she finds the kind of man she thinks she's looking for now.
One question: do you think she was using the 'no-sex' spiritual epiphany to force a marriage proposal? |
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And if forcing a proposal were the case... | by esbita | 2007-07-09 16:58:31 |
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I'm with 'bita here. | by subbywan | 2007-07-09 17:01:20 |
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Yeah, but she issued two ultimatums... | by bastetsmuse | 2007-07-09 17:05:37 |
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Who says her religion is organized? | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:07:19 |
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"Bible Camp" | by bastetsmuse | 2007-07-09 17:20:15 |
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Who says she subscribes to that? | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:23:21 |
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The TLP mentioned "Bible Camp" | by bastetsmuse | 2007-07-09 17:25:17 |
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Read it closer. | by esbita | 2007-07-09 17:29:42 |
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Somehow, | by postaljohn | 2007-07-09 17:31:37 |
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For all we know: | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:36:51 |
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For curiosity's sake | by postaljohn | 2007-07-09 17:41:37 |
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I disagree with you. (n/t) | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:42:22 |
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OK | by postaljohn | 2007-07-09 17:43:35 |
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No problem. (n/t) | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:44:17 |
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Said "not particularly religious." | by esbita | 2007-07-09 17:43:48 |
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So? | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:33:39 |
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As 'bita said, such conversions are seldom | by subbywan | 2007-07-09 17:11:04 |
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And why would he want to deal with | by ToLazyToThink | 2007-07-09 18:05:54 |
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What if she said | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 18:10:13 |
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And a relationship *never* has those? | by esbita | 2007-07-09 18:10:42 |
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Relationships have all sorts of bumps | by ToLazyToThink | 2007-07-09 18:19:57 |
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A good point. | by esbita | 2007-07-09 18:27:07 |
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I admit the religion part of it is a large part | by ToLazyToThink | 2007-07-09 18:51:08 |
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And those decisions can also be reversed... | by esbita | 2007-07-09 18:55:07 |
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in this case they were both disappointed :) (n/t) | by jeff_uk | 2007-07-09 19:04:10 |
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My wife is finding that last part | by ToLazyToThink | 2007-07-09 19:07:45 |
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To clarify... | by esbita | 2007-07-09 17:07:28 |
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I agree ... it likely isn't lasting, which makes | by subbywan | 2007-07-09 17:09:44 |
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Women can be just as shallow as men. | by MrTrick | 2007-07-09 17:03:29 |
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"I only love you, because you are good in bed." | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:05:12 |
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I agree with MrTrick | by Illiad | 2007-07-09 17:06:41 |
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I have no problem with honesty. | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:10:32 |
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In this case, they were BOTH honest -- | by bastetsmuse | 2007-07-09 17:12:02 |
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You miss my point. | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:14:21 |
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No, I think I see it. | by bastetsmuse | 2007-07-09 17:17:42 |
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If the religious differences enter into it | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:21:09 |
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You don't have to be a 'rabid anti-religionist' | by Arachnid | 2007-07-09 17:30:43 |
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Disturbed: Absolutely. | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:39:23 |
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waitaminutehere | by voxwoman | 2007-07-09 17:18:51 |
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That's worth its own take. | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:35:51 |
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We don't have enough information | by voxwoman | 2007-07-09 17:38:51 |
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Yep. (n/t) | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:40:44 |
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Hey! I'm uglier than a Gila Monster... | by bastetsmuse | 2007-07-09 17:06:50 |
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Somehow I doubt the first statement... | by RetiQlum2 | 2007-07-09 17:11:41 |
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My second statement is that I'm | by bastetsmuse | 2007-07-09 17:14:34 |
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I can always test that part of your post. ;-) | by RetiQlum2 | 2007-07-09 17:20:50 |
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Oooh! An offer!! Witness it, somebody! | by bastetsmuse | 2007-07-09 17:23:26 |
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I'd rather not. | by Arachnid | 2007-07-09 17:31:34 |
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But that's the *definition* of shallow... | by Illiad | 2007-07-09 17:17:49 |
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And I like red-heads, asian women... | by RetiQlum2 | 2007-07-09 17:25:22 |
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I could shave.... (n/t) | by carthax | 2007-07-09 17:47:01 |
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HAHAHAHA :-D (n/t) | by Snate | 2007-07-09 17:49:10 |
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Get rid of the adams-apple and... | by RetiQlum2 | 2007-07-09 17:52:34 |
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Says Eowyn to me: | by carthax | 2007-07-09 17:54:27 |
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I forgot that you were married. | by RetiQlum2 | 2007-07-09 18:53:02 |
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No, I didn't. Since beauty is in the eye of the | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:17:10 |
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Do you mean one of these? | by RetiQlum2 | 2007-07-09 17:32:39 |
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Damn equal opportunities.. | by jeff_uk | 2007-07-09 18:20:57 |
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I agree with you. | by RetiQlum2 | 2007-07-09 17:04:40 |
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bullpucky. | by bastetsmuse | 2007-07-09 17:10:55 |
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depends on the people involved. | by subbywan | 2007-07-09 17:12:32 |
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As a male, I'd rather | by postaljohn | 2007-07-09 17:17:13 |
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I want it. | by CynicalRyan | 2007-07-09 17:12:37 |
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exceptions prove the rule, remember? | by bastetsmuse | 2007-07-09 17:15:43 |
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That expression is supposed to be | by Arachnid | 2007-07-09 17:17:24 |
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thank thee for enlightening my life :P (n/t) | by bastetsmuse | 2007-07-09 17:21:32 |
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Actually it does | by MatthewDBA | 2007-07-09 18:23:17 |
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Fair enough. | by Arachnid | 2007-07-09 18:27:26 |
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True (n/t) | by MatthewDBA | 2007-07-09 18:31:54 |
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The explanation I've heard: | by Phoon | 2007-07-09 20:02:22 |
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Nope | by hactar the uhhh | 2007-07-09 17:16:43 |
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You are meeting the wrong men then. | by RetiQlum2 | 2007-07-09 17:17:03 |
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Of course we want it | by Bellator | 2007-07-09 17:22:40 |
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Amen, sister! | by voxwoman | 2007-07-09 17:25:12 |