| 1.) Her decision to stop having sex prior to marriage is her decision, regardless of its foundation. She could say "I want to stop having sex before marriage because I don't want to risk getting pregnant while I'm single" instead and her decision to become celibate is just as valid. Ignore the reason; she has chosen to make her body off-limits which is her right.
2.) Breaking up with someone because they refuse to have sex with you isn't "natural." It's a choice. Having said that, and recognizing that refusing to have sex before marriage is her right, she is effectively a different person now, and in a dramatic way. People break up because one or both in a couple have changed and they have diverged as a couple in their lives. This is what has happened, and she needs to understand that since she has unilaterally decided to change, he has the right to decide not change with her. |
