Whining about it to us isn't going to help you. We've tried being supporting, we've tried being nice, and all you've done is KEEP on complaining. We really WANT you to get a job and be happy, but as we cannot directly fix it FOR you, we don't really like seeing our efforts going nowhere when it seems like you just never change. Bad things happen to you, you complain. We show you good ways to look at it, you complain. Other people have bad things happen to them, you complain. Good things happen to other people, you complain.
It's like a never-ending circle for you, and we've done all we can and you don't seem like you WANT out of it. Oh, you SAY you do, but we're not seeing that in your actions.
Quite frankly, it's getting to the point that it's easier to agree with you than to waste our time and energy to make you feel better, when you just turn around and ignore it, or just complain more.
If this ISN'T what you want, YOU need to change it, if only wishing people who get some good luck well done and leave it at that, and try smiling once a day, etc.
The balls in your court. We can help you with it, but we can't and won't play it for you.
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