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Real Beauty | by voxwoman | 2006-11-19 12:55:59 |
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The thing is, that "RealBeauty" campaign is a lie. | by RetiQlum2 | 2006-10-17 10:36:42 |
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Translation: "Some people will always be ugly." (n (n/t) | by Phoon | 2006-10-17 10:44:11 |
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Not ugly. | by RetiQlum2 | 2006-10-17 10:57:14 |
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It's *all* "compared to others". | by Phoon | 2006-10-17 11:21:36 |
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You are acting like a dumbass. | by RetiQlum2 | 2006-10-17 12:16:13 |
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*crams fluffy pink bunnies into various orifices* (n/t) | by Phoon | 2006-10-17 12:24:36 |
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I repeat my other response: | by RetiQlum2 | 2006-10-17 12:36:35 |
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... and why would anyone choose 'less attractive'? | by Phoon | 2006-10-17 12:42:05 |
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Besides the obvious, (criminal, etc) my biggest | by quilting_kitty | 2006-10-17 14:34:13 |
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So, an exception. And already taken. (n/t) | by Phoon | 2006-10-17 14:40:47 |
| I'll admit I'm not the norm, but I'm not unique |
by quilting_kitty |
2006-10-17 14:55:29 |
either. There is an entire board full of women here who, more than likely, feel much the same. The hard part is finding them. They're not likely to hang out in bars or nightclubs and unfortunately I'm not sure where to suggest looking. But they do exist.
And I did not become taken until I was 30. I spent YEARS liking the wrong people and trying to be what I thought the guys I was attracted to wanted. Almost immediately after I began being just me, I found the guy for me.
Another point, confident is more important than attractive. You will be far more attractive when you like and accept who you are. |
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How can I "like and accept" what makes me hideous? (n/t) | by Phoon | 2006-10-17 14:59:48 |
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Like and accept YOU. Your thoughts, feelings, | by quilting_kitty | 2006-10-17 15:38:45 |
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The question is what *doesn't* make me hideous. (n (n/t) | by Phoon | 2006-10-17 15:54:26 |
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certainly not your attitude. (n/t) | by imperito | 2006-10-17 18:09:09 |
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It's the wallowing/self-pity that's a turnoff. | by esbita | 2006-10-17 18:13:14 |
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So I should go out and pretend to be hot s4? | by Phoon | 2006-10-17 18:29:43 |
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I'd say "be yourself..." | by esbita | 2006-10-17 18:44:49 |
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Why pretend? | by imperito | 2006-10-17 18:55:36 |
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I've been exercising, jobhunting, and socializing. | by Phoon | 2006-10-17 19:02:14 |
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And all 3 take serious time to take effect. (n/t) | by esbita | 2006-10-17 19:13:34 |
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They're more pain than they're worth. | by Phoon | 2006-10-17 19:32:32 |
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It's painfully obvious that you're not ready to go | by voxwoman | 2006-10-17 19:50:35 |
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Your intelligence | by fitzso | 2006-10-17 19:35:49 |
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Intelligence is a negative. | by Phoon | 2006-11-19 12:55:59 |
