And if you want your woman to see beyond the packaging into the creamy nugat interior, you also have to be willing to do the same. It's a very rare occasion when I (for example) will spend the hours putting on my "Kabuki makeup" (that's what I call it, anyway), and harness myself into something hot but really uncomfortable to be seen in public. Usually I'm in sweats, and don't wear any makeup. I may even bother to brush my hair, but then it gets tied back in a pony tail.