Honestly, Your life is NOT going to get better by trying to ignore the fact that there is a problem. By talking with us, you have already admitted to yourself that change needs to happen, even if you don't want it to because of your fear of it. Look at it this way - Do you want to be in control of the problem in a positive manner, or do you want the problem to control you in a negative manner?
My relationship with my wife is in a rough patch right now, but we have been committed to being open and honest and communicating with each other before the problems get to big to fix. Sometimes we get close to failing at it, but we always try. When we don't talk, we let our problems control us, and while we might be able to handle it for some time, the stress and negative emotions do eventually become to much for us to bear if we don't deal with them. It is only when we open up to each other and try to deal with our problems that we can grow and become better. |
