...I'd have said "no, that person shouldn't be pittied". Nowadays I find myself feeling a little pitty for this person. I even caught myself trying to change/deny that pitty because "it's not right".
However: these days I'm single, have been for almost 3 years. And due to certain facts, some within my control others outside, I don't see that changing anytime soon. I still yearn for a meaningful romantic relationship though, so these days I'm finding it very difficult to imagine anyone being happy without a SO or not even wanting one.
So to answer your question "is this person to be pittied"? Theoretically speaking "no", but I'm having a really hard time not to, being in the mindset that I am.
Just my .02¤ |
