| My friend divorced her husband, and he's STILL living in her house. (her eldest daughter sleeps in the mom's bed with mom, and the ex sleeps in the eldest daughter's room. This is because eldest daughter lost her boyfriend to leukemia a while back and is still a mess from that). But he lived in the house throughout the entire separation and divorce proceedings. Now that she's finished refiniancing the house (so he's off the mortgage), he's supposed to move out. His friends are finally encouraging him to do so.
But it was a real mess for 3 or 4 years.
What I'm saying is that you can start divorce proceedings or separation stuff NOW, instead of waiting.
You should also consider what message you are sending to your children. Your daughter may think it's OK to be with a man who doesn't care for her and cheats on her, and your son may think it's OK to cheat on his future wife. |
