| change all the kids' last names to yours. If the other woman wants to use his name (since you're not using it -- one of the most ridiculous arguments I've EVER heard), let her. And remove his name from your life as much as possible (first step in removing him from your life). But I'm in a vindictive mood.
I would also seriously consider getting rid of the "joint" paypal account. Get your own or change the password on it so he can't use it "by mistake" anymore. (and if he knows the password, maybe SHE does, as well?)
If you don't trust him (and you don't!), ACT like you don't trust him. Start separating him from your finances. He can still support you without having access to your main bank account (or your paypal account) |
