My family and I need all the good thoughts, vibes, prayers, atta boys, whatever that you can spare. We got some very disturbing news the other night concerning my little sister.
Last July, my sister had a bad pap smear (hope I can say that since I can't think of any cute ways to rephrase it). The doctors told her to wait six months and be retested. Again, it came back bad so yesterday, she had a biopsy. Just a note, we didn't find out about this until last night, but everyone my sister knows was in the loop from her friends, their parents and my cousin whom my sister only sees once every two years. They ranked higher then mom, dad and I when it came to life-changing news.
In order to find this out, it took a week of my aunt pammy (our cousin's mother and my mom's sister) asking if my sister was ok, and if she was feeling well. Curious, mom asked chelle what was going on and she finally told her. Mom, needless to say, was torn between worrying over her baby and being royally angry at being almost the last to know. (I was the very last to find out) What hurts my mom the most is that she suspects that my sister values her best friend's mother higher and has asked this woman to be with her when the results come back.
My sister gets the results from the biopsy in about a week. She doesn't want any family with her, which I think is stupid. If she's facing news of possible cancer, she should have family around her. We're hoping that it comes back negative and she's fine.
So, prayers, good vibes, good thoughts, warm fuzzies, a slew of candle lighting would be much appriciated.
Thanks
Stephystar |
