When my dad was cheating on my mom, he had no intention of leaving her - not because they were happy together, but because it was his home and he was *comfortable* there - he didn't see any reason why the status quo should change - until my mom kicked him out.
rogue - I know you have heard all the advice, and I know your financial situation isn't the best - but *he's* having a great time - he has a home and a family, and he has a girl on the side - *he* is not going to change the situation. So if *you* are unhappy with the situation, then it will be up to *you* to change it.
It sucks, but it's also empowering - you CAN take control of your life and your happiness.
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