I'm constantly wanting to do something to rectify the situation with my girlfriend, but damned if I can figure out what.

If she were the type for head games, she couldn't have done much better. Taking a 2-month relationship from friends/casual dating to romantic, 3 days before departing for a year... 2 of which she'd already arranged to spend with other friends... Argh!

Anybody know where I can steal borrow a cryogenic suspension capsule? Or maybe some nice psychoactive drugs...

Blood... boiling... and I can't do anything about it. I'm trying to arrange a couple days together in November when I go to San Diego to visit family, but Pasadena isn't exactly a short drive in a rental car, and I dread LA traffic. And I can't get anyone to nail down a date so I can book a flight. Argh! I repeat, Argh!