1. The next suggestion to do something together should come from you. Ask her if she has time to go for a cup of coffee at $local_coffee_house after class sometime soon. This step is also known as "indicating interest."
2. Change the venue to a more involved setting. Your place, or the same shop later at night, or a dinner (either going out, or you cooking it yourself); something like that. Do you dance? If yes, suggest you go clubbing or somesuch if she wants to.
During all this, start doing small things for her to show that you *really* have interest. Calling; e-mailing; IMing; compliments about dress; broad smiles.
As regards conversation etc. during this time: try to not just stick to math; try to find other common ground. Play an instrument? Like music? Had something interesting happen recently? Talk about it. Also, ask questions about her; don't interrogate her, but respond, and give her opportunities to talk about yourself.
Finally: at any time, if doing something else than what I say here seems a good idea, do not hesitate to do so! Going with the flow is very important.
YMMV, and this does not pretend to be a be-all, end-all, sure-fire list; if it were, I'd be rich. But I think it's concrete enough to help you, and vague enough to do no harm. |
