| For the second time in my life I'm coming out. |
by Trinity_Quasar |
2005-05-11 16:05:12 |
Ugh, I could've chosen a more appropriate week, like one when krikkert was home.
*sigh* I accepted something I've been supressing A LOT recently, and it's that I have a lot of male characteristics. Infact, I'm a man in a female body.
Basically, I've decided to class myself as Transgender, and to be more specific, FTM Transgenderist (I'm not going to be taking any hormones for those who want to know, I'm just going to be me, but as open as I want)
There are few days where I feel female, and many where I force myself to look and act female. When to be honest, it's not what I am.
To those who may be reading, I understand a lot of you may have issues with subjects like this. Some of you may be thinking this is harsh on krikkert, and I feel the same way too, but I cannot suppress this any longer, I never meant to lie to any of you. I'd like to thank Arivia for being very helpful in helping me come to terms with this, and I'd like to thank macfreakphil/TheAristocrat/RainbowForce for being there for me IRL.
Anyone curious on pronouns, I refer to myself as male now, but refer to me how you wish.
This has been adapted to suit UF, but was originally posted on my lj, which isn't FYOSS or eye friendly. Just thought you guys may need to know why I'll suddently be changing my gender identity. |
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{{{{{{{{trinity}}}}}} | by rogue1971 | 2005-05-11 16:09:29 |
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I can't say it better than that | by farfalla | 2005-05-11 16:12:15 |
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Hope you told krikkert before you told any of us | by Kickstart | 2005-05-11 16:10:31 |
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Bah! | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 16:12:19 |
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Sorry, but telling us first is really f'ed up. (n/ (n/t) | by Kickstart | 2005-05-11 16:13:32 |
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Maybe so, but that was my choice. (n/t) | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 16:14:28 |
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Alright. | by Kickstart | 2005-05-11 16:20:44 |
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Easy there, KS | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 16:29:23 |
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Sorry, but no. | by Kickstart | 2005-05-11 16:32:41 |
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and the sad thing is | by McGowan | 2005-05-11 16:35:45 |
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And that was not my intention and you know it. | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 16:40:35 |
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Calmly, all, please | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 16:47:21 |
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ooblah | by cmantito | 2005-05-11 17:23:00 |
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I see where you're coming from | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 16:43:29 |
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What KS said. | by RetiQlum2 | 2005-05-11 17:30:12 |
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And you think I'm not hurt enough? | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 17:43:49 |
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Well, before you got engaged would have been... | by RetiQlum2 | 2005-05-11 17:54:17 |
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Before I got engaged | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 17:55:13 |
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*applause* (n/t) | by Llyr | 2005-05-11 18:05:19 |
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Is that positive or negative toward me? | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 18:10:07 |
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Positive towards you. | by Llyr | 2005-05-11 18:27:47 |
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To sum, ATTN: EVERYONE | by Llyr | 2005-05-11 18:29:42 |
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Thank you. {{{Llyr}}} (n/t) | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 18:46:39 |
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You've got this completely and totally wrong. | by Arivia | 2005-05-11 22:11:33 |
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The choice is certainly yours to make... | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 16:22:07 |
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Probably a bit of each. | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 16:23:44 |
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Sounds good. | by Esteis | 2005-05-11 16:29:04 |
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I'm not. This is likely to be rougher on | by adiplomat | 2005-05-11 16:51:08 |
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Hey, Dippy; long time, no see | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 16:58:22 |
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OK, I'll tell you what... | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 16:58:23 |
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That's not what he said either. | by Kickstart | 2005-05-11 17:00:24 |
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Well I'm emailing krikkert. | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 17:02:57 |
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My "opinion" is as it always was... | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 17:05:15 |
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p.s. You're doing the right thing (n/t) | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 17:06:12 |
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If you only want one kind of comments | by Kickstart | 2005-05-11 18:30:24 |
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I'm not saying that! | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 18:36:26 |
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Take it as a learning experience... | by kiwifruit | 2005-05-11 18:57:13 |
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Stop! | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 17:02:24 |
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KS is right. What's wrong is how you did this. | by adiplomat | 2005-05-11 17:06:03 |
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Trin's e-mailing krikkert now | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 17:07:47 |
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He can't see emails right now. | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 17:09:25 |
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Trin, I *really* wish you hadn't said that... | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 17:13:48 |
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I've emailed him. (n/t) | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 17:16:07 |
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Bless you. | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 17:19:09 |
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I've got to bow out, gang | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 17:17:50 |
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Mods? Language is non FYOSS ? :) (n/t) | by klaranth | 2005-05-11 16:27:02 |
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That's a Mod you're talking about. (n/t) | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 16:30:01 |
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That's a Mod he's *joking* about. (n/t) | by Esteis | 2005-05-11 16:34:19 |
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Ah. Sorry. | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 16:35:30 |
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No worries. | by Esteis | 2005-05-11 16:39:10 |
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Do tell him, before he reads up on all this. (n/t) | by klaranth | 2005-05-11 16:18:55 |
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What he says. | by Esteis | 2005-05-11 16:20:57 |
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/me grins : Echo ? (n/t) | by klaranth | 2005-05-11 16:26:06 |
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Hell yeah. (n/t) | by Esteis | 2005-05-11 16:31:13 |
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No Cellphone? (n/t) | by Havoc | 2005-05-19 11:26:33 |
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Does this mean your Omnicode will change? (n/t) | by klaranth | 2005-05-11 16:12:18 |
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Yes. (n/t) | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 16:13:55 |
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{{{Trinity Quasar}}} | by Fayth | 2005-05-11 16:13:58 |
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I seem to have foot in mouth disease. (n/t) | by Fayth | 2005-05-11 16:24:24 |
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What's so foot in mouth about that? | by Esteis | 2005-05-11 16:27:28 |
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What I didn't know | by Fayth | 2005-05-11 16:29:14 |
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Oh, I didn't know that either. | by Esteis | 2005-05-11 16:33:57 |
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True... | by Fayth | 2005-05-11 16:39:49 |
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Oh, you mean | by Esteis | 2005-05-11 16:41:37 |
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Neither to be honest | by Fayth | 2005-05-11 17:18:53 |
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{{{Fayth}}} | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 16:26:46 |
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It's difficult to do, but it's good news when you | by Esteis | 2005-05-11 16:15:39 |
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What he says. :) | by klaranth | 2005-05-11 16:17:34 |
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Thanks guys, it's helpful. (n/t) | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 16:18:58 |
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just to add | by dennismv | 2005-05-11 16:22:31 |
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Be who you are | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 16:17:56 |
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I shall be emailing him before he gets home. | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 16:20:34 |
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I understand. | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 16:23:18 |
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Be unto like the red breasted penguin | by joecrouse | 2005-05-11 16:22:33 |
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Probably. | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 16:26:02 |
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Actually, send him an email NOW !!!! | by klaranth | 2005-05-11 16:29:21 |
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Seconded, EMPHATICALLY! | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 16:32:29 |
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Seconded again! | by Esteis | 2005-05-11 16:37:30 |
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/me looks around for Ekleih, again :) (n/t) | by klaranth | 2005-05-11 23:20:10 |
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a different way may be | by dennismv | 2005-05-11 16:34:42 |
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A question for the transgendered | by zelda | 2005-05-11 16:44:49 |
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I can't answer from the viewpoint... | by bitflipper | 2005-05-11 16:52:21 |
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I would also... | by highly | 2005-05-12 05:53:09 |
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Good for you and best of luck. | by Illiad | 2005-05-11 16:46:34 |
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Thank you. | by Trinity_Quasar | 2005-05-11 16:49:26 |
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Be yourself. You won't be happy trying to be... | by tskelton | 2005-05-11 19:04:44 |
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Good on you! | by bimkins | 2005-05-11 19:21:59 |
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*SIGH* I can't believe some of the reactions here | by DesertRat66 | 2005-05-11 19:30:24 |
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Sorry, that last sentence is too small to read. | by Kickstart | 2005-05-11 19:33:51 |
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Ake, ake, kia kaha, kia mana. | by shortandsweet | 2005-05-11 20:08:01 |
