I know I feel love for the SO I'm with now, very deeply, but still with your topic, I truly can't say what creates my love for her.
I think there are a lot of ladies that could do as she does, I've met them, been with them, but for some *completely unexplainable* reason, she's the only one I want.
...I'm different, just like everyone else, so for some reasons unknown consciously to me I'm drawn to her no matter what the situation, I'm there to reap the benefits of what I'll say is love, as well as to help in the sorrows in her situations as she returns an identical commitment in my situations, hers is mine and mine is hers and there isn't any quibble about things that must be done, we just work as a team to accomplish the duties bestowed upon us.
that's my love.
my opinion is that love is something that can't be advertised or sold, it just happens. the matchmakers may hook people up, but you can't call that love, I honestly met my love in a kansas chatroom at 2am on YIM on my own accord no singles site involved...
love is a thing that is spontaneous at the start I believe, you can't set it up, it just happens if it's going to. it grows from spontaneity to a regular settled life I think over time when you find the one.
to me, seemingly, love is finding a person that you can co-operate with for both of you to be happy and share hopefully in many pleasures in life, and also help each other through the hardships that everyone is faced with.
I'll say I'm not against the advertised singles market, as long as there is some success in it. to each his own. some need prodding..
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