OK- between reading your first post, and finishing my written
response, you added a follow-up post to say you are married.
OK, that cinches it... flirting OK, past that: no play
This could be the missing part of the puzzle, as to why she is so comfortable
around you, that she isn't defensive, and feels ok to enjoy your company.
YOU aren't on the make, looking for someone to hook up with, and that can
make you very attractive ::as a friend::
Besides, you have been around you wife long enough to get rid of much of the
awkwardness that some guys have when talking to women... You aren't on edge
or skoping her out, or fake, or trying to impress, or tounge tied, etc
so she can let her guard down, around you - or even flirt some, when
flirtation in return is unlikely to become anything she has to 'fend off' later.
see- a married man could be 'prefect' to play with -to a point.
...in which case, much of the advise posted ABOVE, is for the benefit of
OTHER UFies, who may find themselves with similar situations. |
