| groups, but Celticess beat me to it.
You are between a rock and a hard place, and I have a lot of sympathy for you.
Are you on civil terms with the father of the other child of your wife(exwife)? She may be doing similar things to him, and if the 2 of you "band together" as it were, you both may be able to make headway.
Thing of it is, custody battles are extraordinarily expensive and everyone really loses. She sounds like a real piece of work, your babymama. I don't know if this link will help you at all, but I'll give it to you just the same. My husband's ex is one of these. Malicious Mother Syndrome
How are your parents dealing with all of this? | 
