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The daily flamebait | by Arachnid | 2004-10-21 02:00:38 |
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Depends | by Spisefisken | 2004-10-21 02:09:19 |
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Wasn't it Freud that held the view... | by Arachnid | 2004-10-21 02:11:22 |
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I agree with you there | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 03:45:29 |
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Huh? | by Spisefisken | 2004-10-21 04:08:23 |
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I think you're missing my point somewhat | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 04:44:51 |
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You might not expect it consciously | by Spisefisken | 2004-10-21 04:53:48 |
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The *real* point I am trying to make | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 07:15:43 |
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But are acting selfish | by Spisefisken | 2004-10-21 07:28:56 |
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And it makes you feel good to know | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 07:41:03 |
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That is how the world works | by Spisefisken | 2004-10-21 07:44:39 |
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Does it ? | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 07:54:44 |
| By "selfish reason", do you mean . . . |
by HadEnuf |
2004-10-21 08:40:08 |
. . . "conscious motive" or "benefit to self"?
Looking for the former is cynicism; the latter, mindful[1] pragmatism.
If one person makes another's life better, in even the tiniest way, it unavoidably makes the benefactor's universe a
better for the benefactor, if only for a moment, simply because they share that universe with the beneficiary. For
the benefactor to deny that they benefit from their "altruism" is in fact a form of *ingratitude*, and cheapens the
act as surely as does the assumption that the act is purely manipulative.
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HadEnuf?
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[1] In the Buddhist sense of accepting the world as it is, without judgement or "processing". |
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To answer the question, neither. | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 08:44:55 |
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What is the sound of one hand clapping? | by Naruki | 2004-10-21 08:51:34 |
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What impossible restrictions ? | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 08:57:49 |
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In your statement. | by Naruki | 2004-10-21 09:02:10 |
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If you want to interpret it that way | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 09:32:12 |
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It's just that, in your first statement, . . . | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 09:54:23 |
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That's it exactly. | by Naruki | 2004-10-21 15:17:07 |
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There simply *is* no such situation, as I see it | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 08:53:00 |