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The daily flamebait | by Arachnid | 2004-10-21 02:00:38 |
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Depends | by Spisefisken | 2004-10-21 02:09:19 |
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Wasn't it Freud that held the view... | by Arachnid | 2004-10-21 02:11:22 |
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I agree with you there | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 03:45:29 |
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Huh? | by Spisefisken | 2004-10-21 04:08:23 |
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I think you're missing my point somewhat | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 04:44:51 |
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You might not expect it consciously | by Spisefisken | 2004-10-21 04:53:48 |
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The *real* point I am trying to make | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 07:15:43 |
| But are acting selfish |
by Spisefisken |
2004-10-21 07:28:56 |
even if they are doing something just to please me. It might be that they get to see me smile and feel happy about that. That way they get something fulfilled themselves. I for instance opened the door for a guy carrying a lot of things, on my way to a meeting just an hour ago. The only reason people could possibly see was that I was being nice. It was the only reason, but it also made me feel happy. He might have found it very nice that I did this, so he remember that this was the case. He will then if he sees one in the same situation open the door for him. I might eventually need somebody to open the door for me, and because I was nice towards this guy today it spread like a dominoeffect so a person actually opens the door for me.
On top of this it made me feel good that I helped out one of the people making my food everyday. It does feel good to be nice and I am therefore rewarded that way. |
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And it makes you feel good to know | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 07:41:03 |
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That is how the world works | by Spisefisken | 2004-10-21 07:44:39 |
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Does it ? | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 07:54:44 |
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By "selfish reason", do you mean . . . | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 08:40:08 |
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To answer the question, neither. | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 08:44:55 |
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What is the sound of one hand clapping? | by Naruki | 2004-10-21 08:51:34 |
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What impossible restrictions ? | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 08:57:49 |
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In your statement. | by Naruki | 2004-10-21 09:02:10 |
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If you want to interpret it that way | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 09:32:12 |
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It's just that, in your first statement, . . . | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 09:54:23 |
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That's it exactly. | by Naruki | 2004-10-21 15:17:07 |
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There simply *is* no such situation, as I see it | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 08:53:00 |
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You just assume it will devalue the action. | by Naruki | 2004-10-21 07:51:28 |
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I'll try to explain | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 08:06:48 |
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Suppose you seek an altruistic reason | by Naruki | 2004-10-21 08:23:33 |
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Well put, on paranoia and zealotry, . . . | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 08:28:19 |
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This is by far a mental exercise | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 08:32:25 |
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That does not necessarily follow | by HadEnuf | 2006-11-19 12:55:59 |
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Which is *exactly* the trap I am thinking of. | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 08:54:41 |
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Then we are approaching the same point, . . . | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 09:04:04 |
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I'm approaching it from the point | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 09:15:13 |
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And I am approaching it from *my* experience, | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 09:24:12 |
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Great, an argument over something we agree on :) (n/t) | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 09:34:57 |
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No, everyone *is* capable of the sane "attitude" | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 10:05:27 |
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Sorry, but I don't think everyone | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 10:20:31 |
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I might buy "unwilling", but not "incapable" | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 11:09:08 |
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Mmm, difficult one. | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 12:23:35 |
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The obverse is equally "true". | by Naruki | 2004-10-21 08:49:33 |
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Which in my mind means that | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 08:52:15 |
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I don't know whether Naruki agrees, but . . . | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 08:54:55 |
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Which means we don't agree with Yaeger. | by Naruki | 2004-10-21 08:58:18 |
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Not entirely certain of that | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 09:16:42 |
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Regardless of my benefactor's motives, | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 08:27:05 |
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I think you're spot on with the evaluation bit. | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 08:41:43 |
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Not true | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 09:02:44 |
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The thing I am arguing for | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 09:13:21 |
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That seems to be the first time you've made that | by Naruki | 2004-10-21 09:24:14 |
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Hey, grant *some* points for *trying* | by HadEnuf | 2004-10-21 09:26:26 |
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In future, it would help | by Yaeger | 2004-10-21 09:39:07 |
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I didn't burn you at all. That's in your mind. | by Naruki | 2004-10-21 15:19:40 |