| I have been in two ...made to buy a ugly-arse dress I never wore again, and wouldn't care too. When KS and I got married, I didn't want all the fuss. We didn't have attendents, except some friends of mine served cake & punch...but they dressed as they saw fit. It was dressy casual. I think if you seriously can't afford to pay for the stuff, I would tell your sister, I love you, and I am happy for you...but I just can't afford it, or whatever you see fit. I don't think it is worth you getting in debt over, if you are unhappy about it. If she really wants you to be in it, then perhaps she will help out. Just a thought. |
