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now that was an intresting call	by Celticess	2004-01-13 15:01:09
Some folks are truly wonderful....and on the	by webishop	2004-01-13 15:10:08
well	by Celticess	2004-01-13 15:25:25
in this case the woman that called me like me was experiencing abuse. Also he had lied to her like he had me. He also admitted the money came from him getting it from other sources(gang activity) and that he'd been to jail before I married him for such. She was concerend for her daughter and that he might of also approached her. He was also pushing her to marry him... he was doing a variety of things that sent up red flags. He also told her that supposedly I was a party animal at clubs all the time and that I cheated lots and lied. Not true and she said she didn't totally believe it was true when he said it even. Only reason I'm civil to him is our son... for our sons sake. I know he loves our son and I recognize his relationship with our son is seperate from him and me... he has also tried to behave towards me for our sons sake... but that is just since my daughter was very ill... the last time they said she was terminal and since her death he's been ok. But this woman had questions on his family and everything else. He told her not to contact me... She did anyways and as mentioned he doesn't know. I told her one other of his ex's also did and I told her some of the same I told that other woman that once asked me. I said I love our son and for all I know my ex could of changed and that I'm well aware he loves our son and that he's tried to behave for our kids sake since our daughters illness. I also pointed out I worried about the other women with him but kept my mouth shut because I didn't want my son getting caught in it and also I figured they'd presume I was this nasty vindictive ex who was saying whatever. I pointed out more than once he may of changed and I said I think of him as just a sick man and had to forgive him for both my sons sake and my own sanity... I also thought it was sad if he doesn't change because otherwise he's going to end up a very lonely old man because no woman will stay with that. Anyways she told me about the hidden money and he was bragging on it to her. Also found out he was in prision for the gang stuff before he married me. I only knew he got busted once at 15 for driving under age. Also apprently his temper has got worse but she agreed with me on the patterns I noticed and warned her on... I also warned her about how to distance herself lest he go ballistic on her like he did me. ie gradually break free so it's not obvious she's doing it.(other than that the option is like some of his ex is to move a fair distance away) Anyways I was startled to get this call and she shyly was asking me about it. She right now tho is very frightened and having been in her position in the past I can't blame her. I also mentioned to her years ago my roommate who I was friends with back then even slept on my couch with a baseball bat because I was afraid of my ex and that friend(my roommate) knew he wasn't ok and could see it when he met him.
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Men's violent behavior toward women is a	by webishop	2004-01-13 15:40:54
well I was being hopeful	by Celticess	2004-01-13 15:49:32

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