|
|
Back to UserFriendly Strip Comments Index
|
Does Christmas make anyone else sad? | by lord_dolphin | 2003-12-21 00:59:59 |
|
umm yea | by Celticess | 2003-12-21 01:23:12 |
|
{{{Celticess}}} | by Electric Storm | 2003-12-21 02:23:40 |
| my brother |
by Celticess |
2003-12-21 12:15:37 |
lets see his list of things include:
snubbing me when I split with my exhusband and saying that he didn't believe somethings and other things he felt were my fault because I was diffrent.(this is despite other family members ie my parents and sister telling him they suspected my exhusband was abusing me) He is still best friends with my exhusband.(I think most other womens brothers would of beat the !@#$ out of the guy at one point)
He wasn't ever there for me during majority of my daughters illness. Then after she died on a phone convo with him where I asked him to speak at her wedding for me. He decided to call me names, and tell me off for being upset about somethings around her death(picture small hospital like room that holds single bed and there is over 22 people stuffed in it and most of them you do not know or who had snubbed you during the split as it is chinese old custom to shun women for such things). He had me in tears and upset enough that my son came over and tried to comfort me as did my roommate... and I obviously couldn't tell my son what was wrong... I was looking for support and just got a blast of pain and my brother being a !@#$.
When I tried to commit suicide in my teens because of trauma I'd been delt from numerous sources in life due to my being diffrent...(ie I got molested sometimes, swarmed and beaten many others, psychologically played with by many, etc) He turned his back on me and snubbed me... he took a how dare you attitude. He also was quite angry with me for not seeing money/status as the number one thing to set as a goal. I told him money wasn't everything and I'd rather be poor and happy...(I was following my music and I had a good chance at a decient pro career this was before my accident damaging my left hand and killing any chances of a music career.)
He never talks to me or other family except maybe once or twice a year. For me it's xmass time. Rest of the time he ignores us. His solution for my mom is to buy her the most expensive frivelous thing he can find($250/ounce perfume and stuff)... of course that doesn't make up for the absense to her. Yet he has time to see my ex nearly every weekend and drive drag race cars in his spare time... also take trips to exotic places. Only time he briefly knocked off being such an !@## was when he went into diabetic coma... we all knew he was heading towards diabetes as he was over 350lbs and didn't lead a very healthy lifestyle. But his acting nicer was like I said brief... He ate whatever he wanted even with diabetes just adjusting his insulin (and ignoring other diabetics in the family telling him that wasn't wise) and then he to solve his problem got gastric bipass surgery.
My brother is also beyond obnoxious to certain groups. He's beyond nasty and homophobic tho he's a bit nicer to gay/bi females. He's very strong political views and quite nasty/arrogant to those that don't share them and will angrily debate. He's atheist but put up with the catholic stuff just to get married but now I don't think he can be bothered again and is nasty to his wife about her beliefs.
Anyways trust me he's done plenty. He's not acted as a brother or been there for me. He's done nothing or done things to hurt me more. I tried to forgive him after his coma incident but he went right back to how he was. He doesn't wish to change. My mom, sister and other family call him arrogant. His wife and step daughter too and they even find him hard to live with as he's rigid amoungst other things. When his step daughter got preggers his response was to shout at her she wasn't his daughter and never would be and throw her out of the house. This girl who is now a young adult ... my brother was the only steady father figure too since she was 8. She may not be blood but I very much consider her my neice and my love of her is unconditional... She's also not a bad person she's just made mistakes... I can't quite say the same on my brother at this point. He's 40 right now and the only reason his wife hasn't left him is she's catholic and doesn't believe in divorce...
Anyways as you can see he's not very nice.
As for the kids that stood up for my son I don't know their names or I'd of sent them a thankyou and made their parents aware of what good boys they raised. I may write the newspaper talking on the incident and say tho the boys names I don't know (other than one was named patrick... I don't know his last name nor his friends name... I do know the name of my sons classmate tho) I think they are wonderful young men and to publically thank them. |
|
[ Reply ] |
|
ack not wedding... funeral :( | by Celticess | 2003-12-21 12:16:53 |
|
|
[Todays Cartoon Discussion]
[News Index]
|
|
