She started ignoring you cause she was shopping around, looking to trade up.
She is paying attention now because her alternate dumped her.
You are too nice. You are being treated like a doormat.
Suggestion: Continue to be nice to her, but not 'too nice', and string her along until you find a new girlfriend.
Then dump her, but be gentle about it because you are, after all, a nice guy.
Explanation:
When a woman says you are 'too nice' that means either
1) you are a wuss, and she wants a strong man to boss her around
or 2) she knows she doesn't deserve a nice guy.
Either way, dump her, and don't look back.
Warning: NEVER give her another chance. For the rest of your relationship she will be looking to trade up.
Fritz (ask me about my divorce) T. Coyote.
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