| The worst thing you can possibly do is rush things at this stage. If you just want to get your rocks off, go to a nightclub and find someone random. Don't spoil things with someone you really like. If they feel the same way, you'll know it, and things will happen naturally and meaningfully. Don't ever just go for meaningless, um, FYOSR-unsafe activities with someone you're serious about. I've been in your situation and blown it like that more than once. Hopefully this time around I won't, since the young lady is the best match for me I've ever found... |
