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oops on yesterdays comments | by Arienadean | 2006-11-19 12:55:59 |
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Sure sure :-P | by DaNutBall | 2002-07-22 00:28:06 |
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yea well your a math dude | by Arienadean | 2002-07-22 00:32:36 |
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((((((Arienadean)))))) | by DaNutBall | 2002-07-22 00:36:19 |
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yes and I feel for the women that have | by Arienadean | 2002-07-22 00:41:58 |
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oops I'm tired another typo | by Arienadean | 2002-07-22 01:13:56 |
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slime.......... | by sumbusch | 2002-07-22 06:36:46 |
| My roommate likes to say |
by Arienadean |
2002-07-22 11:52:29 |
"all men are pigs." However I don't agree. Majority of ones I know are good people some are very nice. :) I've met more good ones than awful. Relationship wise out of those I've dated only 3 fit the slime catagory with my exhusband top of that list. The vast majority of guys were great.
I got hurt because I was naive and too trusting perhaps. Part of such is in all people to be. However I'm autistic so I tend to be a bit more clueless on somethings the average population isn't. My ex husband knew I was diffrent and took advantage of that. He also tried to shape me into his view of "perfect" because he felt I was "near perfect." Which was irritating as heck. He also followed the pattern typical of those that are abusers.(I know that from the meetings I went too... the abuse they do and extent of it varies but they all have "like" profiles) Some women are scumbags too and follow the profile as well. I've known at least one such woman... eventually the guy got out. I heard another guy talk of such a woman but he was too embarassed and scared to get out of the situation.(also how abused males are treated in society varies from how females are treated)
Yes there are lots of scum out there. But I can quite honestly say I've only had 2 thoughts that would of got me arrested had I carried them out. One was to deal with my exhusband perminantly(I had someone offer to do that actually but morally I couldn't allow it so said no... even though I knew 99% likeness I'd not get introuble for it.... long story) and the other was deal with the people that abused me perminantly.(I nearly acted on that with one of them but morally again I couldn't do that) Otherwise nope I don't fantasize about anything that could get me busted, etc... I guess I'm probably pretty boring that way.
Though people have *some* potential for bad. Maybe I'm a dreamer I dunno but I feel far more people have good in them and are decient people. Yes some will do somethings part of the time. But the majority of those that do really awful stuff are probably a small group of the population. Though I'd say the most of the population probably does at least one scummy thing in their life or has pondered it several times. But people have a sense of right and wrong and their own moral codes. I'd like to think the vast majority follows some code that prohibits harm to another and tries to establish some mutual respect.
I was aware of dangers and pitfalls... But sometimes people aren't what they appear. I had known my exhusband via my brother for several years. I never got to see the nasty side of him until later just before we got married and worse when we were married. People that are abusers on average can be that way. How they appear publicly is one thing how they appear privately is quite another.
I do trust many 100% but I'm cautious in those I place trust in. I've been hurt enough times to realize that. You have to trust someone sometime and I'm not going to change who I am then the persons not soo good of ways will of won. I'd rather be me than walk on eggshells all the time. I know their is good and bad in most. I trust my roommate 100% but then I also know his nauances to realize what I can trust him to do one way or the other on something. I can say anything to him, chromatix, danutball, and another friend kirtai and visa versa... They aren't phased they are just matter of fact about it and will be there for me no matter what and visa versa. But basically til I've known someone a little bit I will not give them 100% trust though I will give them some respect and try to be patient.
As for plan B's... Yes thats good to have for most things in live. But then I'd also have to be very much a pessimist on somethings to even formulate a plan B. I only formulate one if I can see a need comming... I don't start off with one.
More people not just women need to be aware of the signs of a bad partner/person. It would perhaps spare them some pain... and the people that are such should be forced to see a shrink for their issues and wear something to warn others to not date them if they don't get well... |
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i have a better quote: | by Cybergeek | 2002-07-22 21:31:32 |
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truly 'golden'.... | by sumbusch | 2002-07-22 22:28:33 |
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