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oops on yesterdays comments | by Arienadean | 2006-11-19 12:55:59 |
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Sure sure :-P | by DaNutBall | 2002-07-22 00:28:06 |
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yea well your a math dude | by Arienadean | 2002-07-22 00:32:36 |
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((((((Arienadean)))))) | by DaNutBall | 2002-07-22 00:36:19 |
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yes and I feel for the women that have | by Arienadean | 2002-07-22 00:41:58 |
| oops I'm tired another typo |
by Arienadean |
2002-07-22 01:13:56 |
I went to the transition house for 1.5 yrs... I had told my sons preschool (which had parent participation) where I was and they understood if my then husband actually called to say I was busy and couldn't come to the phone. The transition house was about a 5min drive away from the school. But during my relationship with my exhusband... If I went to a support group for my sons stuff or mine disability wise he accused me of cheating. Which I never ever did do(re cheating). However I got ill after my son was born. I thought it was from difficult delivery. Nope I found out my ex gave me an std(he had been the only person)... anyways I was in shock and denial and luckily it was cureable. Then women were calling and suddenly hanging up... Though one talked to me and told me he promised her a job after she got fired. Another left a message on his parents answering machine saying his name and saying what a wonderful time she had at the night club with him.(and yes he'd been to the club... but I'd trusted him.<sigh>) Then his friends/co workers warned me. One flat out said he treated me badly though he was nice to his "friends" and hinted there was other stuff and I deserved better. I just didn't want to hear it. The other hinted he was up to something and said I was a good person and should know. The woman that called about work got fired for having an affair with my ex during my marriage when he was working in that store she was working at. Thats what one of my friends also confirmed to me. Anyways my ex husband was besides a cheater a swindler. He would try to flip things for a profit even if it ment stuff like selling a car to an underage kid that didn't have a license yet.(he was 15 and the parents came back angry) And other "scam" type things. I hated it and told my ex so at the time and refused to have anything to do with it to the point of saying I was thinking about talking to police. Well umm his families gang connections nipped that in the bud unless I wanted the witness protection program. Also he tried to tell me I can't testify because I was his wife. Then add in he was mentally/psychologically abusive, mildly physically abusive, and <cough> things.(which have caused me perminant physical damage as seen on a scan of my pelvis)
Like I said the guy is slime. He was charming and nice before we got involved. It was the day before we got married things changed... then I was too frightened and confused to not go through with it.(and embarassed... long story) Though I definitly dont like the guy he is my childrens father. They do love him and I can see he genuinely cares. So I've tried to deal with him reasonably and neutrally regarding the kids. Even though he's taken pokes at me.(he phoned child protection once which though they investigated found nothing and admitted he was the one that called stuff in... then there was the calls to my sons special needs social worker, and the claims that I had "caused" my sons issues when he had surgery for birth defects... the doc told me my ex was an idiot and I should see something and showed me the letter from him saying he'd not dignify it with a response.)
Anyways I've rambled enough... I'm just glad to be away from him. Unfortunately I'll never totally be away from him because I have children with him.(well at least until my sons a teen to adult age) If I could have no contact with him ever I'd be happy. But I've delt with lawyers, know about protection orders, etc ... my ex also seemed to known about them even before I tried to get them... intresting that. But anyways they aren't very effective. Eventually though my ex cut out alot of the really awful stuff... well for awhile. Due to my daughters things. Though he's trying again re my son but my sons social worker and councellor have pointed out he's wrong not me.<sigh> One day he'll lay off for good...
Btw it was between people from the transition house and friends at bbs/online that I finally said enough and told my ex to leave. |
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slime.......... | by sumbusch | 2002-07-22 06:36:46 |
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almost forgot......... | by sumbusch | 2002-07-22 06:43:06 |
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Now what make you belive women | by SaleGamine | 2002-07-22 06:43:34 |
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M-hmmm... | by Eco | 2002-07-22 08:15:17 |
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Sugar & Spice | by fore_deck | 2002-07-22 08:48:14 |
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Ok | by SaleGamine | 2002-07-22 11:02:08 |
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My roommate likes to say | by Arienadean | 2002-07-22 11:52:29 |
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i have a better quote: | by Cybergeek | 2002-07-22 21:31:32 |
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truly 'golden'.... | by sumbusch | 2002-07-22 22:28:33 |
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