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NPOTD | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 00:48:29 |
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Reason | by Illiad | 2001-10-08 01:37:59 |
| I've done that too |
by Arienadean |
2001-10-08 01:52:01 |
under "speak my own mind" usually I say if I'm bugged and why. However I've found sometimes they ignore me or get worse which causes me to react in the other things mentioned.(takes a fair bit for me to lart someone... I tried for quite awhile(days/weeks/months and even years) before I went to lart level)
I too have ended relationships because of trying to compromise/find solutions and its as the saying goes "like banging your head against a brick wall." If they care and it means something they will make effort to compromise/work it out. If not its just some mind game or they think of you as some toy or something. Then it becomes a case of can a person stay living like that or would they be happier without that person.(because staying might just keep up misery, etc). I have patience... everyone does but everyone also has limits and relationships need mutual respect amougnst other things. When people deliberately do stuff to their SO that they know bothers them that isn't showing much respect.(my ex husband and a boyfriend I had after the split both had a habbit of doing that. I had patience. I repeatedly discussed concerns. I listened to them they ignored me and thought their behaviour funny... so out came the lart and also breaking up.). Also if they are being self destructive and wont listen to reason. They don't just hurt themselves they hurt others that care about them... and yet others just don't care to discuss, change or compromise.
I'm lucky in my current relationship. I think currently we are doing quite well. :) We do discuss, try to compromise, and make some effort. |
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