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NPOTD | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 00:48:29 |
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by Illiad |
2001-10-08 01:37:59 |
No question. If my SO (and I do not currently have one) were to behave in a manner that set off my alarms, I'd say "What you're doing bothers me, and this is why."
The usual triggers for a red flag include manipulation, control games, and a refusal to communicate. These are things I absolutely, positively, do not tolerate.
The ultimate LART is to choose to end the relationship. I've used that a few times because eventually the effort I had to put into the relationship outweighed the benefits.
It's a constant struggle to make sure I don't do the things that I don't want a partner to do to me. I've been successful lately; I just hope it stays that way. :) |
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AAAAaaaaaah.... finally graced by the lord of UF | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 01:41:01 |
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Oh, please? You'd THRILL certain | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 01:42:58 |
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mee? you mean lil ol me? | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 01:44:16 |
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Too late...:+) (n/t) | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 01:47:14 |
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hey wait.. | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 01:48:20 |
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incurable? maybe? (n/t) | by Tars_Tarkas | 2001-10-08 01:50:04 |
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nah... (xcheopis: help. I need to borrow your wit) | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 01:52:33 |
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Ok, how about In... | by Tars_Tarkas | 2001-10-08 01:58:16 |
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to quote the famo(u)s tiger Hobbes: | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 01:59:14 |
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Um, insupportable? | by xcheopis | 2001-10-08 01:59:06 |
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here's a quick snapshot | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:02:20 |
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Hah, well, since this is the NPOTD, | by xcheopis | 2001-10-08 02:12:09 |
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<Beavis>hehuhuh she said "mount" hehehuh</Beavis> (n/t) | by BlurOfSerenity | 2001-10-08 02:15:07 |
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<Butthead>Shutup Beavis</Butthead> (n/t) | by Tars_Tarkas | 2001-10-08 02:18:05 |
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how come those names ring a bell? (n/t) | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:19:14 |
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hehehuhuh.. watch more MTV, dude. hhuhhuhehhe (n/t) | by BlurOfSerenity | 2001-10-08 02:20:26 |
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Bah! Humbug! | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:26:28 |
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Good. MTV rots your brain. | by BlurOfSerenity | 2001-10-08 02:28:16 |
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The Maxx... | by Tars_Tarkas | 2001-10-08 02:29:39 |
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'cool stuff' ?? | by sonofabusch | 2001-10-08 06:43:33 |
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They quit making Beavis and Butthead episodes :( | by kinslay3r | 2001-10-08 14:21:02 |
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....thank God... (n/t) | by sonofabusch | 2001-10-08 16:08:08 |
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Reminds me of the "frustrated" geek who | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 02:19:59 |
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yeesh | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:23:36 |
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Well, I didn't know! Yeesh, this guy's from | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 02:28:11 |
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well usually I dont... | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:30:33 |
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and unusually you are? | by SD Maruko-kun | 2001-10-08 03:10:08 |
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now i gotta get this straight | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:16:48 |
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Oh, yeah, it is... Maybe my post below will help.. (n/t) | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 02:21:58 |
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How about incorrigible? (n/t) | by pengeek | 2001-10-08 10:16:38 |
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Illiad does the NPOTD? Correct me if I'm wrong,.. | by BlurOfSerenity | 2001-10-08 01:41:20 |
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hey.... | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 01:42:52 |
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The Devil... | by Tars_Tarkas | 2001-10-08 01:48:30 |
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That is a bit deep! | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 01:50:38 |
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Maybe... | by Tars_Tarkas | 2001-10-08 01:56:35 |
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heyyy.... | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:00:06 |
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I am right here Mike | by Whiplash | 2001-10-08 23:01:42 |
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wait till you see the one I got lined up for | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 23:38:25 |
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Just curious, was that a certain movie title | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 01:51:34 |
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I hadn't even thought of that | by BlurOfSerenity | 2001-10-08 01:54:36 |
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Ok I am outa here. | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 01:56:15 |
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innocent? pshaw! (n/t) | by BlurOfSerenity | 2001-10-08 01:57:15 |
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atleast I am | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 01:58:18 |
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Let's just say that "Debbie Does Dallas" | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 02:01:27 |
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Actually | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:03:18 |
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*psst!* | by BlurOfSerenity | 2001-10-08 02:03:57 |
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I think he's trying to enlighten me... | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:05:04 |
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Sorry, Gill but Mike's not only fairly innocent, | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 02:08:41 |
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yeah poor me... (n/t) | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:15:25 |
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Manipulation... Hmmm... Blur, you're on deck! | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 01:46:38 |
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Fire away ;) | by Illiad | 2001-10-08 01:47:39 |
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An old Civil War (US) joke "Which one's Will?" (n/t) | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 01:49:30 |
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i think your will would be a nice place to start.. (n/t) | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 01:51:15 |
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Long time since you grace the board | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 01:49:32 |
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Hmmm... Alrighty then.. | by BlurOfSerenity | 2001-10-08 01:49:54 |
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I've done that too | by Arienadean | 2001-10-08 01:52:01 |
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What?!? You don't like manipulation? | by xcheopis | 2001-10-08 01:56:16 |
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I'm sure you could find many willing volunteers | by BlurOfSerenity | 2001-10-08 01:59:21 |
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One dented and mad mekkanik | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:00:52 |
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M'am, yes M'am! Reporting as volunteer! | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 02:03:32 |
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OY diplomat... | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:06:14 |
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Yup! and likely will try it soon. (n/t) | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 02:09:16 |
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What?!? No control games? | by xcheopis | 2001-10-08 02:09:36 |
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x cheopis, innuendo pro! | by BlurOfSerenity | 2001-10-08 02:13:01 |
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Whew! This Internet stuff really IS as | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 02:17:02 |
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*looks around* | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:18:10 |
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too late | by Da_Ediot | 2001-10-08 10:42:49 |
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Mmmm | by Sehmket | 2001-10-08 11:13:23 |
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Ow! | by BlurOfSerenity | 2001-10-08 02:18:33 |
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It's not the zipper. | by xcheopis | 2001-10-08 02:29:21 |
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May I be of assistance? ;) (n/t) | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:35:26 |
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Then I'll get a ... | by Talon0720 | 2001-10-08 09:14:57 |
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Bah | by Sehmket | 2001-10-08 10:10:42 |
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<frustrated libido>Where's my Transporter | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 02:14:21 |
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But those are the best kind! (n/t) | by xcheopis | 2001-10-08 02:31:48 |
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What was that chick's name in History of | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 02:44:32 |
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Madeline Kahn | by nimdokk | 2001-10-08 15:31:15 |
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see also 'Blazing Saddles' and | by sonofabusch | 2001-10-08 16:11:44 |
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also | by nimdokk | 2001-10-08 17:55:06 |
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Yeah, but... | by wheresthefish | 2001-10-08 18:02:31 |
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hehe | by nimdokk | 2001-10-08 20:04:33 |
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now, now.... | by sonofabusch | 2001-10-08 18:29:53 |
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hmm | by nimdokk | 2001-10-08 20:08:24 |
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Yeah! I meant the dancer's character name! (n/t) | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 23:26:54 |
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Ma'am | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:14:44 |
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It's this darn top | by xcheopis | 2001-10-08 02:34:24 |
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Ooooooh.... | by mekkanik_mike | 2001-10-08 02:41:57 |
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::Runs screaming:: (n/t) | by Sehmket | 2001-10-08 08:00:59 |
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yes, brrrrrr... | by SD Maruko-kun | 2001-10-08 09:58:57 |
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I hear saliva works well for that sort of thing. (n/t) | by BlurOfSerenity | 2001-10-08 17:01:44 |
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Heh. | by IByte | 2001-10-08 17:10:58 |
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*Wipes chin* | by wheresthefish | 2001-10-08 17:26:55 |
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hopefully those aren't the clothes... | by SD Maruko-kun | 2001-10-08 04:04:45 |
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You are right. I heard no mention of clothes | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 07:14:11 |
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very wise | by mr.coffee | 2001-10-08 02:10:32 |
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Constant struggle, eh? | by xcheopis | 2001-10-08 02:23:34 |
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Circuits failing...{crackle}{fizz}{pop}!!! (n/t) | by adiplomat | 2001-10-08 02:26:11 |